Random Connect Points:
Reba's Stories

My latest post went live over on my professional blog at The Medway Group.   For anyone who has worked in campaigns, the week leading up to the election is like no other experience. It’s a blinding minute-by-minute chaos of decisions on the fly, anticipating every possibility that could stand in the way of making it to election day. Good memories abound from many of my "last week of the campaign" adventures.  But two fine ladies who were part of these early career memories have now left us, Mary Lou Price and Emilie Theodore.  The morning after the 1994 election. The week-end before the 1994 election "fly-around" Both of these fine ladies have left us now.

House concert: (hous KON-sert) - A gathering of friends, neighbors and music lovers in an intimate home setting to celebrate and support local musicians. OK … so I kind of made up that definition, but it does describe the concept. The idea of house concerts goes back generations to Appalachian traditions. A performer en route between gigs may have had an open night to play at a host’s home along the way in exchange for a good meal and place to lay his head. The host would charge a small ticket price with all proceeds going to the performer. In the modern twist on a house concert,  guests pay a small admission fee  and bring a snack to share if they'd like, their own adult beverages and chairs (we will move inside to the dining room if it rains.) So that's what’s going on October 28 – a house concert at our house featuring  the fabulous Danielle Howle who is just days away from releasing her latest album on Nov. 3. ( Pre-order the album. )  Joining her will be  ...

Panic, fear and worry were only a few of the emotions I felt on a Tuesday afternoon in mid-September when my mother had a second stroke. For the past two years, she has been oh-so-well-cared-for in the skilled nursing area of Still Hopes Retirement Community following a previous stroke and the death of my dad. When I walked into her room that Tuesday afternoon for a quick visit, I knew immediately something was wrong. The team sprung into action to quickly get the medical attention she needed. Over the subsequent month, I’ve tried to keep a running list of all my lessons learned and kindnesses received during this scary experience. Hopefully, these may help others who find themselves managing this type of emergency. Appreciate that the medical professionals are people first - caring, dedicated people. To a person, the medical professionals we encountered from the ambulance to the ER and the ICU to the regular hospital room at Lexington Medical Center were committed, kind, smart,...

Maybe it’s my age or maybe it’s the fact that some of my current work has me skirting around the edges of politics again. I’ve recently devoured three podcast episodes and re-read a book that took me back to the policy issues and politics of the '70s and '80s that interestingly continue to shape our state today. The old adage of "the more things change, the more they stay the same" certainly plays out when looking back at how we got to where we are today. First the podcasts All three of these podcast episodes brought up political and policy issues from the '70s and '80s that still taunt South Carolina today. All three are must-listens for anyone who works in or around legislative politics and state government. ·       Podcast hosts and former state senators Vincent Sheheen and Joel Lourie spent an hour in conversation on “Bourbon in the Back Room” with long-time editorial writer Cindi Scoppe from the Post and Courier . She covered the State House for The Stat...

"Hello Beautiful” by Anna Napolitano is the sweeping story of a large chaotic family in the late ‘70s – early ‘80s with more than its share of eccentricities. It’s a book about love, loss, low lows and high highs, family, forgiveness, grudges and grace.   The Padavano family of four girls and their parents live in a working class Chicago suburb. Alcoholic father + mother mired in unfulfilled dreams = four daughters who heavily depend on each other while, at the same time, also learn to rely on their individual strengths. Willams Waters, a broken young man saved only by his basketball talent, joins the family by way of his marriage to the oldest daughter, Julia. The imbalance that results throws the entire family into a series of life-altering changes. Each of the characters is developed enough to firmly illustrate their individual superpowers. For William, his superpower begins as talent in basketball. For Julia, it appears to be her ambition. The second sister Sylvie, only...

Another historical fiction for the win with “ The First Ladies ” by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray. After I really enjoyed “The Personal Librarian” earlier in the summer, this newest book by the same authors piqued my interest. This is the story of friendship, political will, and a passion for righting wrongs that First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and Black activist Mary McLeod Bethune shared.  Many of the issues familiar in today’s culture – race, gender and divisive politics - played a big role in how these two women made their way through their individual and shared lives. Together, they wielded a behind-the-scenes power that changed the course of the civil rights movement in our country. Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune’s lives ran parallel and intersected repeatedly both in spite of and because of their shared vision for civil rights, equal education and social justice in the country. Plus, they forged a personal friendship that crossed racial lines unh...

Ten years ago this summer, I sat at the kitchen table at the beach and finally put together a blog for my writing. It wasn’t a pretty site. My design skills were non-existent. The design options for an amateur like me were minimal. At that point, it was just going to be a place for me to catalog my published writing and maybe post a few personal pieces I wrote. Ten years and 162 posts later, I’ve finally gotten around to a reboot of Random Connect Points thanks to another quiet week at the kitchen table at the beach. I can’t say my design skills have improved but the options available to an amateur designer have increased. Maybe one day I'll get around to properly tagging posts and photos so the search feature will work, but for now, I'm happy with this! My beloved yellow bike continues to grace the cover photo. The more modern “hamburger” drop down menu cuts down on clutter on the landing page. I’ve chosen a simple white background with a fun headline font. And finally afte...